Building a loving relationship with your baby

Right from the beginning, your relationship with your new baby is an intense, two- way on that will grow into a real and lasting love. Bring him/her up close to your face to talk and coo to him/her- the baby will look intently back at you, gazing raptly at your face. Eye contact always plays a big part in falling in love, and it is the same with you and your baby. Try sticking the tip of your tongue out when you are looking at each other; he/she will quickly learn to respond by doing the same- this is real two-way communication. He/she will reward your efforts to calm him/her by quietening at the sound of your voice. And when he/she is miserable, she will want you to hold and comfort him/her.

Crying is your baby’s way of expressing his/her need for love and comfort. Always respond – don’t leave him/her to cry.